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A lot has changed since Emily Post’s book about etiquette came out. We are left to ourselves to best define what modern day dress code etiquette means. Here is a helpful list that will help you navigate modern day dress etiquette.

Modern Dress Code Etiquette

WHITE TIE / ULTRA FORMAL

  • Men: Full Dress (White Tie, Vest and Shirt)
  • Women: Long Formal Gown

BLACK TIE / FORMAL

  • Men: Tuxedo
  • Women: Long Gown, Dressy Cocktail, Dressy Evening Separates

BLACK TIE OPTIONAL

  • Men: Tuxedo or Dark Suite and Tie
  • Women:  Long Gown, Dressy Cocktail, Dressy Evening Separates

CREATIVE BLACK TIE (FORMAL EVENT WITH A THEME)

  • Men: Tuxedo with a Theme Twist
  • Women: Long Gown, Dressy Cocktail, Dressy Evening Separates with a Theme Twist

SEMI-FORMAL

  • Men: Suit (Dark if Evening)
  • Women: Cocktail Dress or Dressy Suit

BUSINESS FORMAL

  • Men: Suit (Dark if Evening)
  • Women: Cocktail Dress or Dressy Suit (Nothing Work Inappropriate)

COCKTAIL ATTIRE / INFORMAL

  • Men: Dark Suit
  • Women: Cocktail Dress

DRESSY CASUAL

  • Men: Sport Coat and Dress Pant
  • Women: Dress or Dressy Pant Suit

CASUAL

  • Men: Really anything goes (I saw with hesitation)
  • Women: It’s best to ask your host what is appropriate

We are going to be judged on how we carry and present ourselves, let’s make sure we are putting our best foot forward!

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