Picking a Bridal Party

Picking a bridal party can honestly be one of the more stressful decisions you make about your wedding.  You are constantly worrying about leaving people out or hurting people's feelings.  They key to getting through this processes is to be understanding.

When you are asking attendants to be in your wedding, be clear about what you are expecting of them. Do you want them at every single shower and event or do you just care they are able to be there at the wedding with you? Putting expectations up front, you will eliminate many awkward conversations later. 

Be aware that you may ask someone to be in your wedding and they may decline. They may not be able to make the financial commitments or perhaps they already have a wedding that day. Do not take offense to this. Life happens.

Keep in mind that everyone is there to support you on your special day.